Whatever we do or say in front of children is it can easily have a great impact on them. Our world and actions can have an effect on our children’s adulthood according to the psychologists.Here are the 5 things you should never say in front of your child:
1. “Stop crying immediately!”
Instead of yelling at them, try comforting them and find a solution for their hardships, because just like us, adults, they also have the right to express their feelings and they were also having a hard time on some things.
2. Don’t Call Them Useless
They would feel like they are incompetent to do anything if you make and say to the child that they were unworthy and useless. Give them the feeling that you have faith and trust in them and try to show them the right way. In this case, they would do better next time.
3. Never Call Them Weak
Just Because They Are Afraid Every one of us has his own fears and none of us is fearless. And having problems of dealing the fears of your child doesn't make them weak. So while they are young will create great results as they grow so teach them and encouraged them on how they overcome their fear.
4. Never Unleash Your Anger Upon Them
You don't have the right to call them different names like worthless, disappointment, etc just because you're angry, whether because of something else or on them. If you’re upset or mad they are even more, because they care for you. Instead of yelling at them when they do something bad, teach them that they should not do that again.
5. Never Tell Them They Are Not Good Enough
Telling to your child that they are not good enough for you is letting your child feel uncomfortable and insecure. Being a parent is not an easy job, it requires a lot of love, patient, and hard work. But as the time passes by it will get easier and we know that you can do it! Have great day moms and dads!
What can you say about this matter? Did you agree with what was written above regarding the things that you should not say to your children? kindly share and give your comments and reactions to us.
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